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Wednesday Wedspiration: long readings for your wedding that DON’T suck
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Wednesday Wedspiration: long readings for your wedding that DON’T suck

By Mell 3rd of October, 2018

Excerpt from The Sandman, Volume 9 by Neil Gaiman

Have you ever been in love?

Horrible isn’t it?

It makes you so vulnerable.
It opens your chest
and it opens up your heart
and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.

You build up all these defenses,
you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you,
then one stupid person,
no different from any other stupid person,
wanders into your stupid life…

You give them a piece of you.

They didn’t ask for it.
They did something dumb one day,
like kiss you
or smile at you,
and then your life isn’t your own anymore.

Love takes hostages.
It gets inside you.

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After planning, designing, and coding her own wedding, Mell started Gettin' Hitched Rocks to help awesome couples stay WHELMED through the wedding planning process, with clever websites that do the work for them.

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