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Stress-free wedding planningStress-free wedding planning: Problem Pal

My in-laws HATE everything about my wedding – and me!

There are seven words no one planning their wedding wants to hear: ‘you could at least offer a soup.’

I’ve helped couples navigate tricky social situations from wayward wedding guests on Problem Pal before, from guests who didn’t RSVP but thought they could still rock up, to guests who took it upon themselves to invite other people to the wedding, but this is the first time I’ve heard of wedding guests who aren’t involved in the planning criticising everything about the wedding – and the bride.

If you have high blood pressure, you might want to give this one a miss. It will make you angry.

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About Gettin’ Hitched Rocks

About Gettin’ Hitched Rocks

Hi! I'm Mell.

I started Gettin’ Hitched Rocks to keep you whelmed while you plan your wedding, with wedding websites that do the wedmin for you and send automatic RSVP reminders to the people who need them, and matching stationery, so you can carry the design you love, with your personality shining through in every detail, across every part of your wedding, from save the dates to thank yous — and everything inbetween!

Stay whelmed with our free resources, interviews with real couples on what not to do, our regular Problem Pal advice column, and stress-free wedding planning advice.

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It's one thing to know your wedding is your day an It's one thing to know your wedding is your day and you should do what makes you comfortable; it's another to actually feel comfortable with unconventional choices.⁠
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As much as I'd like to say you should never have anyone at your wedding who'd judge you for breaking tradition and putting your own spin on things, families can be a lot more complicated than that. You might have to deal with some judgemental aunts or a mother who s i i i i i ghs when you tell her something you're excited about.⁠
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How do you deal with that? How do you balance bringing your personality into your day against worries about being judged that you can't shake off, no matter how much T Swift you listen to?⁠
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That's what we're digging into in this month's Problem Pal advice column.⁠
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This is the dirty part of wedding planning no one This is the dirty part of wedding planning no one talks about: you get sick of talking about your own wedding.⁠⠀
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It dominates most of your conversations. You talk about it with the people who are a part of your day and need to know the nitty gritty details, but also the casual acquaintances, who turn to it as an easy way to make conversation for a few minutes before a meeting.⁠⠀
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If you're starting to feel like you don't talk about anything else, we have some wording you can pinch to - politely - move the conversation on to something else on our wedding planning advice column.⁠⠀
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This month, we're donating 5% of every sale we mak This month, we're donating 5% of every sale we make to @s_lawrencetrust, to support the incredible anti-racism work they do across the UK.⁠
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Set up in memory of Stephen Lawrence, who was killed by racists while waiting for a bus, the Stephen Lawrence Charitable Trust helps young people from disadvantaged backgrounds study and gain work experience in architecture - honouring Stephen's dream of becoming an architect - and helps businesses recruit more diverse talent.⁠
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They're truly incredible and well worth your support.
Our wedding websites work in 3 easy steps:⁠⠀
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1. Choose your wedding style⁠⠀
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Find a website design to fit your wedding in our collection or wow your guests with a bespoke design, unique to your wedding.⁠⠀
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2. Create your website⁠⠀
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The fun bit! Create your guest list and write up the details of your day, then we'll turn it into a fully working website with our concierge service.⁠⠀
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3. Netflix and chill!⁠⠀
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Focus on the fun parts of planning your wedding — we'll do the rest. We'll remind your guests to RSVP and get the details you need.⁠⠀
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Click the link in our bio to learn more and find out how you can plan your wedding, stress-free, with a website that organises your guests for you.
Sound the sexy new website klaxon! 📣⁠⠀
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I've been beavering away behind the scenes to update Hitched.Rocks with a new look, oodles of information about how our wedding websites work (and how they can make your life easier), and even some exciting new services!⁠⠀
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Click the link in our bio to check it out, or slide into my DMs to natter nuptials and find out more about our wedding websites and matching stationery.
Plan your wedding, stress-free, with a wedding web Plan your wedding, stress-free, with a wedding website that organises your guests for you.⁠
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Our wedding websites:⁠
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✔️ are password protected, so only your invited guests see the details.⁠
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✔️ change for every guest, so evening-only guests never see the details of your ceremony or get asked what they want to eat.⁠
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✔️ send automatic reminders to get your RSVPs in on time. No awkward chase-up phone calls!⁠
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✔️ collect all the information you need in a simple, searchable dashboard. You don't have to count and re-count who needs a vegan option, or dig through RSVP cards to find your plus one names.⁠
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✔️ keep you WHELMED while you plan your wedding.⁠
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Check out our live demo to see how a wedding website can help you organise your guests and plan a stress-free wedding.⁠
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🚨 Nerd alert! 🚨⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ If it's not imm 🚨 Nerd alert! 🚨⁠⠀
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If it's not immediately obvious from a) the fact I run a website and stationery business and b) my general me-ness, I was the kid with ten different notebooks I never wrote in. (With ten pens that were 'too nice' to write with.)⁠⠀
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So the last few weeks have truly been my 12 year old self's dream: I've been surrounded by fancy stationery I haven't been too scared to write on.⁠⠀
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(I like to think little Mell M would have been equally as excited about this as the other dream I've accomplished for her: working with a Spice Girl. Right…? Right…?)⁠⠀
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I decided to upgrade our paper to something a little more ✨luxurious this year - something that really gets across how special your day is going to be when your guests hold your invitation in their hands.⁠⠀
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This is linen texture card. It's the same paper playing cards are made of, so it feels weighty and substantial in your hands. (And a little exciting too, like you're about to win a game.)⁠⠀
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It looks INCREDIBLE in the background of photographs and when it's taking more of the focus, and it really adds a special finishing touch to wedding stationery - the kind you can only say in French.⁠⠀
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Tell me what you think! And what you wanted (what you really, really wanted) to do when you were 12.
You come across a lot of jargon when you're planni You come across a lot of jargon when you're planning a wedding.⁠
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People bang on about wedding breakfasts when they mean dinner, favours when they mean gifts, and cummerbunds which… Who even knows what that means?⁠
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One of the big ones is on-the-day stationery - so we're going into what it means and what pieces it's worth considering for your wedding (and why!) on our blog.⁠
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Let's talk table names.⁠ ⁠ Your wedding should Let's talk table names.⁠
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Your wedding should feel like you, with little touches that make it completely unique to you and your partner.⁠
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Table names are a fantastic place to work in some more personality without feeling cheesy or distracting; they need names, so people can tell them apart - name them after something that matters to you, like places important to you as a couple or your favourite films.⁠
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Check out more ideas for non-boring table names on our blog.⁠
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